Arousal & Anxiety - What to Do When Intimacy Feels Like Too Much

A $22 masterclass on staying present, embodied, and turned on, even when your nervous system wants to run

You want better sex. But instead, you get stuck in your head.

Your body says yes, but your brain says abort mission. Run AWAY!!!!

​You start to get turned on…
  and immediately begin worrying about whether you’ll stay hard.
  Whether you’ll come too soon.
  Whether you’ll come at all.

You start to enjoy yourself, and suddenly start wondering:
  “Do I look okay?”
  “Are they having a good time?”
  “Can I say what I actually want?”

You’ve faked orgasms just to make it stop.
 You’ve avoided spontaneous sex because it feels like pressure.
 You’ve been told you should “just relax” — but relaxing feels terrifying.

And when arousal gets really intense?
 That part of you that wants control, perfection, and certainty shuts the whole thing down.

You’re not broken. But you are wired for survival.
​
What you’re experiencing isn’t failure — it’s conditioning.
       From childhood trauma.
       From shame-based sex education.
       From purity culture, performative porn, and perfectionist patriarchal bullshit.

We’ve all been taught that arousal is:
​

• Dangerous unless it leads to orgasm
  
  
• Shameful unless it’s private
  
  
• Wrong if it doesn’t look spontaneous and sexy 24/7
  
  
• Something you either suppress or perform
  
  

No wonder your nervous system feels confused, overwhelmed, or frozen when pleasure shows up.

This masterclass is for the part of you that wants more, but doesn’t feel safe in it, yet.

​

In Arousal & Anxiety, you’ll learn:
​

• The two places most people get anxious in arousal — and why
  
  
• How to identify your unique anxiety shutdown pattern
  
  
• What trauma, cultural conditioning, and performance anxiety do to your turn-on
  
  
• How to rewire your nervous system so arousal isn’t something you fear
  
  
• Why you don’t have to act on arousal to enjoy it
  
  
• What it really means to be “relaxed” in erotic experience (and no, it’s not passive)

You’ll get:

✅ A powerful 30-minute masterclass recording

✅ Downloadable audio file for on-the-go replays

✅ Self-survey questions to understand your own arousal story

✅ Mindset reframes to release shame and performance pressure

​✅ A somatic practice for relaxing into arousal instead of shutting it down

This is a real lecture from inside Mastering Desire — my year-long mentorship for embodied erotic transformation.

If you love this, you’ll love what we do inside the full container.

📥 Grab it now for just $22.

No pressure. No performance. No pretending.

Just the truth about what it takes to feel safe in your desire —
and the tools to help you get there.

What people say about Eva's workshops and leadership: