Mastering Desire:
sex, love, & leadership
Mastering Desire is a path to maximize pleasure and passion, master your sexual life,
create fulfilling relationships, and be the powerful, magnetic leader of your life.
Mastering Desire is the path to master the erotic, embodiment, and emotional skills you need to generate the intimacy, ecstasy, and success you are worthy of and designed for.
Mastering Desire is the project of integrating body, heart, mind, spirit, soul, and sex
to joyfully, passionately, and freely express your whole, full self without
apologizing, minimizing, or masquerading.
Mastering Desire is the path of healing, reigniting, and elevating your relationships
so you design and live in true partnership, collaboration, and creativity.
Mastering Desire is developing a deep and meaningful relationship with yourself
so you show up self-possessed, confident, and eager to bring your vision of love and pleasure to life.
You will transform your life
Desire & Vision
You have to know what you want in order to create it.
Instead of recreating what is not working or trying desperately to avoid what you don’t want, give yourself the time and space to dream into your desire.
You will walk through a series of simple, structured processes to discover, define, and declare your desires in sex, love, and life.
When you craft a clear vision, you will communicate your desires effectively to collaborate with your beloveds, take inspired and committed action every day, and live your vision as if your life depends on it.
You have to know what you want in order to create it.
Instead of recreating what is not working or trying desperately to avoid what you don’t want, give yourself the time and space to dream into your desire.
You will walk through a series of simple, structured processes to discover, define, and declare your desires in sex, love, and life.
When you craft a clear vision, you will communicate your desires effectively to collaborate with your beloveds, take inspired and committed action every day, and live your vision as if your life depends on it.
Come Home to Your Body
Epic sex, fulfilling love, and deep intimacy happen in your body. You know you are having it when you feel it.
Most of us have not been taught how to use our bodies for pleasure, connection, and ecstasy — on our own or with another person.
You will learn the fundamentals of sex — from form to function, pleasure to power, solo to partner. You will use the somatic practices to generate and regulate your arousal, experience ecstatic and altered states of consciousness, map your pleasure, and expand your sexual repertoire.
You will discover and define who you are as a sexual person, develop a deep and meaningful relationship with your body, break out of the sexual ruts, amplify your love and compassion, and make love intentionally.
Own & Use Your Authentic Voice
When it comes to using your voice, you speak in two different directions — outward to the people in your life and inward to yourself.
What you externally is just as important as what you say internally.
When you inner voice and outer voice are divergent, misaligned, contrasting, you are living inauthentically, in conflict, and in deception. From this place, you may experience mistrust, separation, and scarcity.
When these voices are in alignment, you live authentically, powerfully, and in integrity. When you speak truthfully, you generate trust, intimacy, tenderness, love, and passion.
You have always had a powerful voice.
Now is the time to own it, trust it, and use it.
From expressing your desires, speaking your fantasies, processing your experience, asking for what you want, negotiating with your partner for sexual success, setting boundaries, taking up space, to shouting for joy, using your voice is critical to living your pleasure, passion, and purpose.
When it comes to using your voice, you speak in two different directions — outward to the people in your life and inward to yourself.
What you externally is just as important as what you say internally.
When you inner voice and outer voice are divergent, misaligned, contrasting, you are living inauthentically, in conflict, and in deception. From this place, you may experience mistrust, separation, and scarcity.
When these voices are in alignment, you live authentically, powerfully, and in integrity. When you speak truthfully, you generate trust, intimacy, tenderness, love, and passion.
You have always had a powerful voice.
Now is the time to own it, trust it, and use it.
From expressing your desires, speaking your fantasies, processing your experience, asking for what you want, negotiating with your partner for sexual success, setting boundaries, taking up space, to shouting for joy, using your voice is critical to living your pleasure, passion, and purpose.
Choose Empowering Beliefs
We all live in a deeply sex-negative and sexually-misinformed society. We have been surrounded by and inundated with messages and myths that warp our capacity to create a healthy, fulfilling, passionate sex life and intimate relationship.
When you believe that you cannot have what you want, you will not create what you desire.
You get to interrogate the myths, misinformation, and messages you’ve received in your life up until now about sex, intimacy, love, and life. You get to see how these beliefs have organized your thoughts and driven your behavior for you to choreograph your life as you have it right now.
Choosing empowering beliefs is aligning your inner dialogue and your daily mindset with your vision.
We all live in a deeply sex-negative and sexually-misinformed society. We have been surrounded by and inundated with messages and myths that warp our capacity to create a healthy, fulfilling, passionate sex life and intimate relationship.
When you believe that you cannot have what you want, you will not create what you desire.
You get to interrogate the myths, misinformation, and messages you’ve received in your life up until now about sex, intimacy, love, and life. You get to see how these beliefs have organized your thoughts and driven your behavior for you to choreograph your life as you have it right now.
Choosing empowering beliefs is aligning your inner dialogue and your daily mindset with your vision.
Direct Your Sexual Healing
Unfortunately, we aren’t talk about sexual pleasure, passion, and freedom, without talking about sexual trauma and shame.
Sexual healing can take many forms. You get to learn the options and choose your path.
You start with a foundational understanding of the biological and biographical effects of trauma and shame. You then get to examine how these responses and survival mechanisms have shaped your sexuality, your experience of intimacy, and your pursuit of pleasure and connection.
You will learn somatic, cognitive, and vocal practices to unwind the tension and holding patterns, complete the trauma response cycle, and reconnect to your stability and resilience.
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Elevate Your Emotional Intelligence Emotional Intelligence is the capacity to which you understand, perceive, and manage your emotions and the emotions of others. In short, it is being responsible for what is yours and knowing what is not yours. Your success in intimacy and relationships is the degree to which you are open, vulnerable, and intentional rather than reactionary, judgmental, or closed. You will move through facilitated processes and practice communicating to expand your emotional scope, trust yourself and others, be present, direct, and deep, and grow your capacity for mystery in relationship and in life. |
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Design Your Passionate Partnership
Every relationship you have in life is influenced by the relationship you have with yourself.
Partnership is all about being a team together — creating a relationship of trust, love, connection, reliability, consistency, commitment, and intimacy. In life, you have many opportunities to be a team — with your lover, spouse, children, parents, family, friends, coworkers, and more.
The key to sustaining powerful and passionate partnerships is consistently and intentionally tending to yourself, to your partner, and to the space between you two.
This means being authentic with your desires, being intimate with your partner’s desires and vision, and fulfilling your visions together.
You get to choose passion every day, communicate with love, always create a win / win, initiate vulnerability and intimacy, touch with intention, be your word, and have fun.
If you believe this is for you, get in touch: eva@liberatingdesire.com
About My Style
Eva Blake
Prompt — I give you a solid foundation of information and a structure that you can use to understand and develop your own sexual life and relationships.
In each of the above categories, you get a series of educational or philosophical prompts — videos, writing, or worksheets — that invite you to consider new information or a different perspective on sexuality, relationships, or desire. You complete these prompts at home, in your own time, so that when we meet each other in the coaching call, we are diving into the details of how this content is impacting you specifically.
Practice — As humans, we can’t change patterns or habits unless we choose to be and do different. Your practices are designed to embed the new information into your body.
Think of this as learning to tie your shoes or play a musical instrument. In order to get good at the activity, you must break apart the action into a smaller series of steps or component parts to refine your skills and master your technique.
Practices include erotic, emotional, and embodiment exercises such as using your breath, movement, and voice, communicating specifically what you want, need, and desire, or remembering the earliest messages you received about sexuality.
Process — To ensure the new information or new habits to stick with you is to track them, record them, and unpack them.
Our process is the verbal and written unpacking of the prompt and practice, whether that was looking into your memory bank, engaging in solo or partnered interaction or play, or simply reporting on what is happening in your body in the current moment.
My intention is to give your brain, body, heart, and sex a multitude of avenues for learning, growing, understanding, achieving your goals so you can feel at home in your skin, grateful in your life, confident in all your moments, and freely expressing the joy of your life.
In each of the above categories, you get a series of educational or philosophical prompts — videos, writing, or worksheets — that invite you to consider new information or a different perspective on sexuality, relationships, or desire. You complete these prompts at home, in your own time, so that when we meet each other in the coaching call, we are diving into the details of how this content is impacting you specifically.
Practice — As humans, we can’t change patterns or habits unless we choose to be and do different. Your practices are designed to embed the new information into your body.
Think of this as learning to tie your shoes or play a musical instrument. In order to get good at the activity, you must break apart the action into a smaller series of steps or component parts to refine your skills and master your technique.
Practices include erotic, emotional, and embodiment exercises such as using your breath, movement, and voice, communicating specifically what you want, need, and desire, or remembering the earliest messages you received about sexuality.
Process — To ensure the new information or new habits to stick with you is to track them, record them, and unpack them.
Our process is the verbal and written unpacking of the prompt and practice, whether that was looking into your memory bank, engaging in solo or partnered interaction or play, or simply reporting on what is happening in your body in the current moment.
My intention is to give your brain, body, heart, and sex a multitude of avenues for learning, growing, understanding, achieving your goals so you can feel at home in your skin, grateful in your life, confident in all your moments, and freely expressing the joy of your life.
