Masturbation Month Magic

How do I make sex better with my partner?
What do I do about not having an orgasm, early ejaculation, or erection stress?
How do I figure out what I like in sex?
How can make sex fun all the time?

In our deeply paradoxical sex-negative and sex-obsessed society, most of us haven't been taught how to use or move our bodies for sexual pleasure.

More than 95% of the people I have ever asked about their solo sex life tell me that their masturbation is utilitarian, perfunctory, routine, non-existent, secret, or boring. Most of us do masturbation without thinking about it, checked out, distracted, or rushing. Many more are trapped in stories of shame or twisted up with anxiety too much to even experiment.

And yet how we touch ourselves informs how we touch others and what kind of touch we accept or endure from others. The relationship we have with ourselves influences all the other relationships we have in our lives -- with family and friends, co-workers, kids, work, money, art, and the planet.

Solo sex is one of the best ways to experiment, learn about, and play with your own sexuality and pleasure, without waiting for someone else to figure you out, give you direction, or expect you to perform.

Mindful Masturbation Month Magic is a crash course, deep dive into training your body and mind for erotic curiosity, sex magic, partner play, and sexual healing all through solo sex.

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"[This class] made me feel more grounded and therefore more able to say to my partner what works for me and what doesn't without fear of being shamed or rejected. I am super grateful, Eva, for this work you do and how you bring such a heart and openness and presence and love to your process. Thank you." - S.L.

"I've been feeling more alive, with more access and connection to fiery life-force energy. also feeling easier in showing up more fully and more powerfully with other people, while staying grounded and centered in myself. I've been moving in this direction for a while now, but it got a super-charge from [this experience]. I am immensely grateful." R.H.

In Masturbation Month
I'm going to walk you through:

The Mindful Masturbation ToolKit
The ToolKit is a series of templates and step by step guides for you to:

Track your awareness, sensation, and pleasure so you can shape the sexual experiences you want.
Learn to listen to how your body wants to move, respond, and enjoy pleasure so you can stop performing and find your unique flow
Specific Masturbation Techniques for all kinds of bodies to update any of your previous knowledge on genital stimulation, body movement, and sensation play;

Unpacking the Myths of Masturbation for a Shame-Free Mindset

I'll show you how masturbation was intentionally vilified, disordered, and pathologized to control your behavior and sell you shit you don’t need or want.

Pleasure Aides

Deep Dive into Sex Toys of all kinds and kinks, showing you my personal favorites, and describing in detail how to use them
How to choose what kind of toy, device, or extra is right for you now.
How to use pornography or erotica that enhances your pleasure, keeps you connected to your body, and doesn’t leave you feeling ashamed or drained.

Sex Body Basics

A thorough dissection of the human sexual anatomy so you can fully understand how your body works, what the varieties are, and get comfortable speaking openly and specifically about your erotic body;
How to use your 4 Keys to Ecstasy -- breath, movement, sound, and awareness -- to expand your sensational pleasure and direct your sexual energy

Eva teaching Breath work in person.

Eva teaching Breath through video class.

Fundamentals of Sex Magic

How to use ritual technology to get grounded in your body, set clear intentions, and find your flow of pleasure
What you need to manifest your vision, transform your life, or fuel your art and activism
I will walk you through a ritual of self loving so you not only know the steps but know it in your flesh.

Solo Practice & Partner Play

Masturbation Games for you and your sex partner to enjoy each other, expand your sex practices, and be solely in control of your own sexual pleasure
How talk to your partner(s) about what you like, what you want, and what you need to enjoy partner sex, intimacy, and a deeply fulfilling relationship.

Eva Blake teaching breath patterns and practices to open the pelvis, turn on the genitals, and change your consciousness at will.

So, how does the course work?

5 Weekly LIVE video classes with ample space for Q&A
- WEDNESDAY nights: 7:30pm CST
Opportunities for LIVE coaching from Eva Blake;
Online learning portal full of educational materials for your at-home learning and practice;
Private Facebook group to share, learn, and connect with other amazing people who are also here to revolutionize their self loving.

All video calls are recorded and posted in the FaceBook group so you can access them anytime during the month.

Sharing about sex toys in a video call May 2018.

Inside Desire Studio talking shame resilience and self love. July 2018

May's Mindful Masturbation Month Magic is

Consider this an investment; it is. Mindful Masturbation Month Magic is an investment in yourself. No more stressing out and shutting down during arousal, masturbation, or sexual play.

My goal here is to share with you the tools and practices I have used and taught for the last 10 years to know, track, and shape your mind, body, and heart in order to create the kinds of positive sexual experiences you want. I'm not going to tell you what kind of orgasm or sex or relationship is right for you. I am here to provide a structure to help you develop your own intuition, confidence, and necessary emotional, erotic, and embodiment skills for your success in sexual pleasure.