Sexual Self Care
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Self-Initiated Learning
The following resources listed here are some of the many options available in the field of sexuality, human development, spirituality, anatomy, relationships, and personal growth. These are the books that have inspired Eva and currently reside on her shelves.
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HUMAN SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT / THEORY / HISTORY
Vagina: A New Biography by Naomi Wolf The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio Reclaiming Eros: Sacred Whores and Healers by Suzanne Blackburn and Margaret Wade Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein Sacred Pleasure: Sex, Myth, and the Politics of the Body - New Paths to Power and Love by Riane Eisler The Chalice and the Blade by Riane Eisler The Politics of Lust by John Ince Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethå DEVELOPING YOUR PERSONAL PRACTICE Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide by Barbara Carrellasf Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice by Sheri Winston Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover’s Guide to Being the Man You Want to be and Driving Women Wild by Celeste Hirschman, MA and Danielle Harel, PhD Men’s Healing: A Toolbox for Life Non-Violent Communications: A Language of Compassion by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD ANATOMY / PHYSIOLOGY Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure by Sherri Winston Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl Atlas of Human Anatomy 5th Edition by Frank Netter A New View of a Woman’s Body: A Fully Illustrated Guide by the Federation of Feminist Women’s Health Centers The Clitoral Truth by Rebecca Chalker A Headache in the Pelvis: A New Understanding and Treatment for Chronic Pelvic Pain by David Wise, PhD and Rodney Anderson, M.D. Out in the Open: The Complete Male Pelvis by R. Louis Schultz, PhD The Multi-Orgasmic Man: How Any Man Can Experience Multiple Orgasms and Dramatically Enhance his Sexual Relationship by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Hung Jury: Testimonials of Genital Surgery by Transsexual Men edited by Trystan T. Cotten COMMUNICATION / RELATIONSHIPS + CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships by Dr Sue Johnson Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Compassion by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD SPIRITUAL / ENERGY Radical Acceptance: Embracing You Life with the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach, PhD Healing Love Through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak and Maneewan Chia EROTICA With a plethora of erotica out in the world -- in print and online -- you don't have to go far for titillating material. The following two categories are both anthologies of smut edited by two prolific authors and educators I trust. They present feminist, body-positive, sexy stories in their work. Tristan Taormino has written a wide variety of guides for great sex and edited a number of erotic anthologies. Here are a few good ones. Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica Best Lesbian Erotica Luscious: Stories of Anal Eroticism Stripped Down: Lesbian Sex Stories Rachel Kramer Bussel is a prolific writer of smut and sex material. Best Women's Erotica Volume 4 Please, Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission Irresistible: Erotic Romance for Couples Anything for You: Erotica for Kinky Couples Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories TOYS * All toys that touch your genitals need to be of the highest quality non-porous material. This includes silicone, metal, glass, acrylic, some specially created wood. VIBRATORS Hitachi Magic Wand -- deep rumbling vibrations with speed variations and intensities Lelo line of goodies. I have tried a variety of these toys, but I find the Magic Wand to be the best for me. SheBop's selection of vibrators. N'Joy S Curve Barbell -- G Spot favorite. N'Joy has a range of styles to try. DILDOS Vixen VixSkin glorious high quality silicone, variety of colors, sizes, and styles! ---> This is Eva's favorite! <--- BUTT PLUGS Check out this range from the Stockroom. This is the Perfect Plug -- excellent for a beginner! LUBRICATION Lube is is fucking fabulous. I believe it is beneficial for everyone involved to have some on hand when the need arises. Collective Wellbeing Good Glide -- water-based, aloe infused, slick and lovely lube Blossom Organics Natural Moisturizing Personal Lubricant Aloe Cadabera Natural Personal Lube, Organic Sliquid Organics Lube |