The following resources listed here are some of the many options available in the field of sexuality, human development, spirituality, anatomy, relationships, and personal growth. These are the books that have inspired Eva and currently reside on her shelves.
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HUMAN SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT / THEORY / HISTORY
Vagina: A New Biography by Naomi Wolf
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio
Reclaiming Eros: Sacred Whores and Healers by Suzanne Blackburn and Margaret Wade
Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein
Sacred Pleasure: Sex, Myth, and the Politics of the Body - New Paths to Power and Love by Riane Eisler
The Chalice and the Blade by Riane Eisler
The Politics of Lust by John Ince
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethå
DEVELOPING YOUR PERSONAL PRACTICE
Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide by Barbara Carrellasf
Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice by Sheri Winston
Cockfidence: The Extraordinary Lover’s Guide to Being the Man You Want to be and Driving Women Wild by Celeste Hirschman, MA and Danielle Harel, PhD
Men’s Healing: A Toolbox for Life
Non-Violent Communications: A Language of Compassion by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD
ANATOMY / PHYSIOLOGY
Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure by Sherri Winston
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl
Atlas of Human Anatomy 5th Edition by Frank Netter
A New View of a Woman’s Body: A Fully Illustrated Guide by the Federation of Feminist Women’s Health Centers
The Clitoral Truth by Rebecca Chalker
A Headache in the Pelvis: A New Understanding and Treatment for Chronic Pelvic Pain by David Wise, PhD and Rodney Anderson, M.D.
Out in the Open: The Complete Male Pelvis by R. Louis Schultz, PhD
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: How Any Man Can Experience Multiple Orgasms and Dramatically Enhance his Sexual Relationship by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams
Hung Jury: Testimonials of Genital Surgery by Transsexual Men edited by Trystan T. Cotten
COMMUNICATION / RELATIONSHIPS + CONSENSUAL NON-MONOGAMY
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships by Dr Sue Johnson
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Compassion by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD
SPIRITUAL / ENERGY
Radical Acceptance: Embracing You Life with the Heart of a Buddha by Tara Brach, PhD
Healing Love Through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak and Maneewan Chia
With a plethora of erotica out in the world -- in print and online -- you don't have to go far for titillating material. The following two categories are both anthologies of smut edited by two prolific authors and educators I trust. They present feminist, body-positive, sexy stories in their work.
Tristan Taormino has written a wide variety of guides for great sex and edited a number of erotic anthologies. Here are a few good ones.
Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica
Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica
Best Lesbian Erotica
Luscious: Stories of Anal Eroticism
Stripped Down: Lesbian Sex Stories
Rachel Kramer Bussel is a prolific writer of smut and sex material.
Best Women's Erotica Volume 4
Please, Sir: Erotic Stories of Female Submission
Irresistible: Erotic Romance for Couples
Anything for You: Erotica for Kinky Couples
Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories
* All toys that touch your genitals need to be of the highest quality non-porous material. This includes silicone, metal, glass, acrylic, some specially created wood.
Hitachi Magic Wand -- deep rumbling vibrations with speed variations and intensities
Lelo line of goodies. I have tried a variety of these toys, but I find the Magic Wand to be the best for me.
SheBop's selection of vibrators.
N'Joy S Curve Barbell -- G Spot favorite. N'Joy has a range of styles to try.
Vixen VixSkin glorious high quality silicone, variety of colors, sizes, and styles!
---> This is Eva's favorite! <---
Check out this range from the Stockroom.
This is the Perfect Plug -- excellent for a beginner!
Lube is is fucking fabulous. I believe it is beneficial for everyone involved to have some on hand when the need arises.
Collective Wellbeing Good Glide -- water-based, aloe infused, slick and lovely lube
Blossom Organics Natural Moisturizing Personal Lubricant
Aloe Cadabera Natural Personal Lube, Organic
Sliquid Organics Lube