SEASON OF SELF LOVE
How to make solo sex and masturbation an exquisite practice to love your body, eliminate shame, and
turn your wildest dreams into reality.
How do you touch your body with loving hands?
How do you make love to yourself?
What do you say to speak love to your body and soul?
How do you love the deepest parts of your struggles and the peaks of your successes?
How do you create moments that turn you on and inspire luxurious fantasies?
NEXT SEASON OF SELF LOVE: SPRING 2019
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The Season of Self Love is a practice of accepting yourself, trusting your desires, listening to your intuition, and honoring your values and vision for yourself and the world you want to live in. We need to trust ourselves to when setting boundaries, deepening relationships, revealing our vulnerability, or asking for what we want.
The Season of Self Love is a journey into and through the shit and shame and struggle that keeps us trapped in cycles of not giving ourselves the love we so freely give to other people.
The Season of Self Love is a path to cultivate compassion, strength, and fortitude during these precarious times where our resistance to rising fascism, white supremacy, and violence against marginalized communities and the earth is necessary and critical. We need deeper wells and sustained practices of self love to take care of ourselves, to show up in solidarity with others, and to keep creating resilient networks, communities, and art of justice, equity, and power.
The Season of Self Love exists because our pleasure is political. Because our sexuality has been pathologized, our reproduction regulated, while bad science has corrupted our pleasure and freedom. Because sovereignty is our birthright.
The Season of Self Love is a journey into and through the shit and shame and struggle that keeps us trapped in cycles of not giving ourselves the love we so freely give to other people.
The Season of Self Love is a path to cultivate compassion, strength, and fortitude during these precarious times where our resistance to rising fascism, white supremacy, and violence against marginalized communities and the earth is necessary and critical. We need deeper wells and sustained practices of self love to take care of ourselves, to show up in solidarity with others, and to keep creating resilient networks, communities, and art of justice, equity, and power.
The Season of Self Love exists because our pleasure is political. Because our sexuality has been pathologized, our reproduction regulated, while bad science has corrupted our pleasure and freedom. Because sovereignty is our birthright.
The Season of Self Love is a rich practice to explore every inch of your beautiful body so you know exactly what turns you on and gets you off, so you don't have to wait or hope for someone else to figure it out (and probably not get it right)!
The Season of Self Love is a practice to learn, elevate, and embody the habits we need to own our sexual power without apologizing, minimizing, or masquerading. It is time to stop pretending, playing small, or making other people comfortable by fitting into the narrow constructs of "supposed to" and "should." It is a journey into directing our own sexual healing and defining for ourselves who we are and what we want as autonomous sexual creatures on this earth.
The Season of Self Love restores the sacred connection between sex and spirit, clarifies our intentions, and fuels our rituals of making the mundane shit happen and the manifesting the big life magic.
The Season of Self Love is also a circle of witches, healers, artists, anarchists, musicians, mothers, sex workers, students, and dreamers who want to live sexually self-possessed and authentically free.
The Season of Self Love is a practice to learn, elevate, and embody the habits we need to own our sexual power without apologizing, minimizing, or masquerading. It is time to stop pretending, playing small, or making other people comfortable by fitting into the narrow constructs of "supposed to" and "should." It is a journey into directing our own sexual healing and defining for ourselves who we are and what we want as autonomous sexual creatures on this earth.
The Season of Self Love restores the sacred connection between sex and spirit, clarifies our intentions, and fuels our rituals of making the mundane shit happen and the manifesting the big life magic.
The Season of Self Love is also a circle of witches, healers, artists, anarchists, musicians, mothers, sex workers, students, and dreamers who want to live sexually self-possessed and authentically free.
"People say 'you gotta love yourself,' but they don't ever say HOW to do it. You literally showed me how to love myself in ways I didn't know possible. WOW." - R.C. |
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In our deeply paradoxical sex-negative and sex-obsessed society, most of us haven't been taught how to use or move our bodies for sexual pleasure. We haven't been taught much about self-love, except that we should do it. We haven't been taught how to give care and love to ourselves through masturbation, solo sex, or self pleasuring.
More than 90% of the people I have asked about their solo sexual life tell me that it is utilitarian, perfunctory, routine, non-existent, secret, or boring. And yet how we touch ourselves informs how we touch others and what kind of touch we accept or endure from others. The relationship we have with ourselves influences all the other relationships we have in our lives -- with family and friends, co-workers, kids, work, money, art, and the planet.
The truth is, humans have been touching our own bodies since the dawn of our time on this planet. Our touch has soothed our souls, healed our wounds, provided much needed and well-deserved ecstasy, reminded us of our divine connection, and taught us to love.
More than 90% of the people I have asked about their solo sexual life tell me that it is utilitarian, perfunctory, routine, non-existent, secret, or boring. And yet how we touch ourselves informs how we touch others and what kind of touch we accept or endure from others. The relationship we have with ourselves influences all the other relationships we have in our lives -- with family and friends, co-workers, kids, work, money, art, and the planet.
The truth is, humans have been touching our own bodies since the dawn of our time on this planet. Our touch has soothed our souls, healed our wounds, provided much needed and well-deserved ecstasy, reminded us of our divine connection, and taught us to love.
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"[This class] made me feel more grounded and therefore more able to say to my partner what works for me and what doesn't without fear of being shamed or rejected. I am super grateful, Eva, for this work you do and how you bring such a heart and openness and presence and love to your process. Thank you." - S.L. |
"I've been feeling more alive, with more access and connection to fiery life-force energy. also feeling easier in showing up more fully and more powerfully with other people, while staying grounded and centered in myself. I've been moving in this direction for a while now, but it got a super-charge from [this experience]. I am immensely grateful." R.H. |
In the Season of Self Love,
I'm going to walk you through:
The Sensational Solo Sex ToolKit
The ToolKit is a series of templates and step by step guides for you to:
The ToolKit is a series of templates and step by step guides for you to:
- Track your awareness, sensation, and pleasure so you can shape the sexual experiences you want.
- Learn to listen to how your body wants to move, respond, and enjoy pleasure so you can stop performing and find your unique flow
- Specific Masturbation Techniques for all kinds of bodies to update any of your previous knowledge on genital stimulation, body movement, and sensation play;
Unpacking the Myths of Masturbation for a Shame-Free Mindset
- I'll show you how masturbation was intentionally vilified, disordered, and pathologized to control your behavior and sell you shit you don’t need or want.
- Together, we'll upgrade the old meanings and stories for your solo sex and self love that take your inner talk from shame to radiance.
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Pleasure Aides
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Sex Body Basics
- A thorough dissection of the human sexual anatomy so you can fully understand how your body works, what the varieties are, and get comfortable speaking openly and specifically about your erotic body;
- How to use your 4 Keys to Ecstasy -- breath, movement, sound, and awareness -- to expand your sensational pleasure and direct your sexual energy
Eva teaching Breath work in person.
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Eva teaching Breath through video class.
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Fundamentals of Sex Magic
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Taking Your Solo Practice into Partner Play
- How talk to your partner(s) about what you like, what you want, and what you need to enjoy partner sex, intimacy, and a deeply fulfilling relationship.
- How to talk to your partner about partner sex that centers connection, pleasure, and desire instead of frustration, scarcity, or shame
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Eva Blake teaching breath patterns and practices to open the pelvis, turn on the genitals, and change your consciousness at will.
So, how does the course work?
- 12 Weekly LIVE video classes with ample space for Q&A;
- Plus 2 Moon Magic Virtual Rituals
- Opportunities for LIVE coaching from Eva Blake;
- Online learning portal full of educational materials for your at-home learning and practice;
- Private Facebook group to share, learn, and connect with other amazing people who are also here to revolutionize their self loving.
Sharing about sex toys in a video call May 2018.
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Inside Desire Studio talking shame resilience and self love. July 2018
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Plus, you get these BONUSES!
* The Liberating Your Desire 5 Step Guide so you can know what you want for yourself in sex, love, and life without needing anyone to be or do anything different. (Valued at $97)
* Bonus Ticket to Liberating Desire Community Training Day exclusively reserved for Eva’s past and current students and tailored to the needs of the registered guests. Practices may include: Erotic Embodiment, Boosting Boundary Setting Skills, Negotiating for Sexual Success, Sexual Problem Solving & more. Hosted in Portland, OR and Houston, TX. (Valued at $250)
* One 75 minute private coaching call with Eva on any aspect of sensational sex, epic love, or your biggest, boldest vision for yourself in the first month of The Season of Self Love. (This is limited to the first 5 people who register!) (Valued at $250)
* Come Home to Your Body Audio Lessons
Embodiment Practice Audio Lessons designed to help you get acquainted and grounded in your body at any time during your day. Like anything, practicing these mindfulness exercises will help you go from anxious or distracted to present and confident in all your moments -- from the mundane to the ecstatic. (Value: $197)
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Scenes from the Maximize Your Pleasure Live Bootcamp in February 2018. The practice here is getting bigger in body and voice, finding joy and fun in saying NO, and letting self be seen by others.
the Value of The Season of Self Love
12 weekly 90 minute LIVE video Content & Coaching Calls plus Q&A = $3600
2 additional Moon Magic Virtual Ritual Calls = $500
Exclusive Online Learning Portal = $1000
Private FaceBook Group = Priceless
Plus All the Bonuses = $1,197
To pursue all this work with Eva privately, including the Bonuses, you'd spend over $6,000
2 additional Moon Magic Virtual Ritual Calls = $500
Exclusive Online Learning Portal = $1000
Private FaceBook Group = Priceless
Plus All the Bonuses = $1,197
To pursue all this work with Eva privately, including the Bonuses, you'd spend over $6,000
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Consider this an investment; it is. The Season of Self Love is an investment in yourself. No more stressing out and shutting down during arousal, masturbation, or sexual play. No more suffering in the moment or hiding out in your life. This program will give you the tools you need to love yourself deeply and enjoy your sexual body.
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Join The Season of Self Love with our
Social Justice Fee Structure
We live in an stratified society where our identity often determines our social location, impacts our access to wealth, opportunities for advancement, and specialized education and training.
Eva Blake and Liberating Desire seek to recognize this injustice and provide participants a fee structure based on the numerics of the Gender Wage Gap from the Institute for Women's Policy Research in an effort to make this work, material, practice, and community accessible to more people.
When you apply to the Season of Self Love, you will tell us what draws you to this work, and you will name your investment level. We will then arrange payment to complete enrollment.
Eva Blake and Liberating Desire seek to recognize this injustice and provide participants a fee structure based on the numerics of the Gender Wage Gap from the Institute for Women's Policy Research in an effort to make this work, material, practice, and community accessible to more people.
When you apply to the Season of Self Love, you will tell us what draws you to this work, and you will name your investment level. We will then arrange payment to complete enrollment.
My goal here is to share with you the tools and practices I have used and taught for the last 10 years to know, track, and shape your mind, body, and heart in order to create the kinds of positive sexual experiences you want. I'm not going to tell you what kind of orgasm or sex or relationship is right for you. I am here to provide a structure to help you develop your own intuition, confidence, and necessary emotional, erotic, and embodiment skills for your success in sexual pleasure.
Some of My INSPIRATION
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