​Sex Body Basics
10 week accelerated journey
into your sexual authenticity, pleasure, & freedom

​This is the body-based, pleasure-centric, joyful sex education that you didn't get in school. 

​Too many people are struggling in their sex life -- feeling like their doing it "wrong" or failing.  Too many people are tolerating bad, boring, disconnected sex with themselves or other people. Too many people don't know what turns them on, don't know how to turn themselves on, or how to create a sexual relationship with themselves that is honoring, fulfilling, and orgasmic. 

Owning your sexuality without apologizing, avoiding, or stressing out is a practice. 
​And you just need the right tools. 

​In SEX BODY BASICS, you will learn practical, somatic, and heart-centered tools to create a sexual relationship with yourself that you love.  You will learn how to harness the mechanics of your body, the intentions of your heart, and the intellect of your mind to get tuned in and turned on to consistently create the joy, pleasure, intimacy, and freedom you deserve. 

​Sex Body Basics is a solution to these struggles:

• I don't masturbate because I don't know what to do. 
• I don't get turned on. I don't know what turns me on. 
• Sex is NOT fun.  I  get distracted and anxious.
• I don't have an orgasm. 
• I orgasm too quickly. 
• ​I don't get hard anymore. 
• My sexuality has always been about someone else. 
• I don't know what I really want. 
• I avoid my sexuality by working 15+ hour days.
• I am so afraid of rejection that I don't initiate any kind of intimacy. 
• I feel deflated, cranky, and angry because I am not being who I know I am inside. 
• I judge myself relentlessly.  I am consumed with shame.
• I don't know who I am. ​

I GET IT!  I've been there, too!

Before I got into the work of sex, intimacy, and leadership, I struggled in sex -- on my own and with my partner. 

I have pulled the blankets over my head and screamed into the sheets with rage because I couldn't get to orgasm. I have avoided sex with my partner because I didn't want to fight about the ensuing disappointment. I have said yes when I wanted to say no. I have traded sex for safety.

Eva Blake

I have also felt worshipped, adored, and fully entranced by the pleasure of my body and ecstasy.  I have healed old wounds through the tears and laughs of orgasm, and I have played as divinity in rituals of courage and faith.  I have stood naked in front of the world and lived to tell the stories. 

I tell you all this because ​I wasn't just born lucky. I did not grow up feeling confident and liberated in my sexuality, believing in my own worth, or knowing that I deserve pleasure. I'm not inherently different from you. 

I just made a commitment to stop waiting for a better time, or a better partner, or a better set of circumstances to transform my experience of my body, my desire, and my capacity for pleasure.

That is all it takes.   A commitment. 

​Will you commit to yourself?

​All your relationships are influenced by the relationship you have with yourself.  You deserve to know who you are -- intimately, powerfully, and sexually. You deserve:

• to feel free to be yourself
• to fully express yourself -- in all your parts
• to know how to masturbate and feel good about it
• to know your body and how to turn yourself on 
• say what you want in bed 
• to direct your sexual healing
• to feel comfortable and sexy in your own skin
• to be your authentic self in every part of your life​
• get out of your comfort zone and really live free​

​Your pleasure matters. Your great, connected, wildly outrageous, magnificent, mountain-moving, stars-exploding, joyful, authentic sexual satisfaction matters. You matter. 

​Do you want all the pleasure, joy, and freedom that is possible?

Are you ready to shine in your life?  To live with the confidence that comes from truly trusting and celebrating yourself?

Will you commit to your whole self?

"This class made me feel more grounded and therefore more able to say to my partner what works for me and what doesn't without fear of being shamed or rejected.  I am super grateful, Eva, for this work you do and how you bring such a heart and openness and presence and love to your process. Thank you."    S.L.

SEX BODY BASICS is divided into 3 fundamental component parts of study. 

1.   Coming Home to Your Body
Epic sex and deeply fulfilling relationships happen in your body.  You know you are having that epic sex and fulfilling interaction when you feel good.  But the truth is, most of us haven’t ever been taught how to use our bodies to feel good, whether we’re with a partner or on our own.

You get to develop a relationship with your body that is intimate, meaningful, and honoring. You get to get tuned in and turned on to reestablish your innate worth, fortify your resilience, and create fresh pathways to joyful pleasure.

You get to have a healthy, positive, ecstatic sexual relationship with yourself in every stage of your life.

You will:

• Practice mindfulness and erotic embodiment to create and expand pathways to healing, connection, and pleasure
• Redefine masturbation and self-love, so you can create success in this course and in your life;
• Understand sexual anatomy so you don't have to wonder what is happening "down there"
• Learn to be in control of and in surrender to your arousal and orgasm
• Practice erotic regulation to reduce anxiety and increase connection
• Learn specific self-touch and masturbation techniques for love and pleasure

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2.  Discovering Your Desire

You get to be intimate with your desires so you manifest them in reality instead of just wishing or hoping they appear.  Trying to avoid what you don’t want means that you’re constantly looking over your shoulder or running away from what’s not working.

Discovering your desire is digging deep into your heart and soul to speak your vision into life. It is the essential part of embodying your best self, being committed to your dreams, and living your best life.

You get to know, share, declare exactly what you want in your body, your relationships, your sex play, and beyond.

You will:

• Uncover your vision for your sex life;
• Re-center yourself as the leader of your sexual desire
• Speak clearly what you desire in the world of pleasure, orgasm, intimacy, and sex play
• Track & explore your sexual fantasies for fun and wisdom

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​3.  Owning Your Sexual Voice
You get to speak to yourself with love, possibility, and pleasure — because you deserve it.

What you say in the bedroom matters. It matters that your words are authentic, honoring, and connected. You get to know your voice so you feel confident and strong in declaring your sexual desire, speaking your truth, and advocating for what you need and want.

You will:

• Develop a positive and powerful inner sexual voice
• Understand how opening your mouth and using your voice transforms the landscape of your body so you can feel sexually alive and powerful
• Get real life communication strategies for talking about sex in the moment and at the dinner table. Make it as easy as "please pass the salt."
• Use your voice to direct your sexual energy and declare your sexual desires
• Stand up for yourself with power, love, and grace.

"This was a very valuable experience for me.  I felt like I was able to free some of my fears around sex and intimacy and have more comfort with my own body.  I experienced a deep level of healing."   J.J

How does it work?

Stellar Group Coaching Q & A calls each week
Robust Online Learning Portal 
Intimate 1 : 1 Calls with Eva each month
Recorded Coaching Calls 

You will get a PROMPT in the form of educational, philosophical, or self-inquiry worksheet, video, and audio lesson.

You will PRACTICE based on the prompts each day or week through the timeframe of the course. You will track and record the data of these practices.

You will PROCESS your practice experience in the container of the real-time coaching Q&A calls each week with Eva and in the online forum. You will get real feedback and be able to see and hear from the other amazing people dedicated to their own sexual awakening.

You will get structure, support, and accountability to achieve your sensual sexual goals.
You will get real facts, real talk, and real tenderness to develop a positive sexual relationship with yourself.
​You will be loved, challenged, and held high to let go, create anew, and love yourself the way you deserve.

>> We begin May 5th, 2021 <<

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The Investment is $1897
or 2 payments of $997
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BONUSES

1.   Sex Magic Basics Video Series:  I will walk you through the basics of connecting your sexuality with your spiritual practice.

2.  Two Live Facilitated Sensual Sex Magic Rituals: 
Set on the New & Full Moons in June, we will walk through a ritual of intention, embodiment, touch, pleasure, and prayer for your most audacious vision. 
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3.  Sexual Self Care Checklist: Identify and Implement ongoing strategies of caring for your whole sexuality.

You will get as much out of this process of education, practice, and transformation as you put in.
You get to own your voice, put yourself first once and for all, and be a leader in your own sexual life.
You get to be deeply connected to yourself, and surrender into the intimacy you deserve. You get to make love available each and every day.
You get to grow your skills to know how to consistently create pleasure and connection.
You get to be free in the adventure of your passion and pleasure.

Photos of Eva teaching her unique style of body-based, pleasure-centric sex education for liberation. 

My goal here is to share with you the tools and practices I have used and taught for more than 10 years to create the kinds of positive sexual experiences you want.  I'm not going to tell you what kind of orgasm or sex or relationship is right for you.  I am here to provide a structure to help you develop your own intuition, confidence, and necessary emotional, erotic, and embodiment skills for your self-defined sexual success.

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​Is this sexual? & other FAQs

Who is this for?
You.  Sex Body Basics is for any adult with a desire to deepen their sexual relationship with themself. 
If you're ready to feel confident in your body creating joyful, authentic pleasure, this is for you. 
​Any gender, any sexuality, any history.
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Is this sexual?
Yes.  We are going to get intimate, explicit, and detailed in teaching, discussing, and processing your sexual function, feelings, fantasies, and so much more.  I have no intention of holding back on information or using euphemisms to describe sexuality.  I encourage you to get as specific and detailed in tracking your own experiences to support your growth.  

You can be as detailed about your experience on the calls or in the online space as you desire.  Your level of detail in asking questions or naming concerns supports Eva in addressing those concerns and curiosities with specificity and clarity. 

And, this is not a place where participants are encouraged to exchange sexual energy or start relationships with each other.  This is a learning and personal growth space. 

What if I can’t make it to all the calls?

The coaching calls are the best place to get live 1 : 1 coaching based on your specific questions, concerns, and celebrations.

Don’t worry!  All the calls are recorded and available for you 24 hours after the call in the online member’s area.

What's the difference between this program and working with you privately?

If you are struggling in your sex life, feeling like you don't know what to do, you want this program.

Whether you work with me privately as a VIP client or as part of the Sex Body Basics group program, you get access to the same in-depth educational material and exercises.

You also get to be in a circle of humans who are also dedicated to speaking their truth, owning their orgasm, and really shining in their life.