Coaching for Individuals and Couples

Eva Blake offers private Somatic Sex Education and Intimacy Coaching sessions for individuals, couples, and small groups.  The form of these sessions are customized based on your history, intentions, and desires.  Our work is guided by your goals for sexual healing, erotic and emotional skill building, and relationship transformation.

Somatic means "of the body".  Education comes from the Latin root e-ducere, meaning "to lead forth" or to "draw out".  Somatic Sex Education and Relationship Coaching is the process of drawing out your inherent wisdom to refine your relationship with your sexuality and expand your potential for pleasure, passion, and authenticity.

Eva teaches erotic and emotional skills using experiential, body-based learning.  Incorporating breath, movement, conscious touch, communication, visualizations, and the science of Sexological Bodywork, she coaches individuals to be more connected and authentic in their sexuality and intimate relationships. 
Read what folks have to say about this work.

Why a Somatic approach to Sex and Relationship work?
  • Talking about sex and relationships can lead to a shift in thinking.  Somatic education and coaching engages all the senses and can lead to whole life and body transformation!
  • Traditional talk therapists create a space for you to tell your story, sometimes, over and over again.  Somatic experts create an environment in our sessions for practice and experience leading to deep learning and personal mastery.
  • Some folks spend years in talk therapy trying to understand the disconnect between their mind and body.  Because somatic education engages the whole body, your learning can be immediate and profound.  Imagine walking out of our session and taking what you learned into your life that same day!​
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​What can you gain through Sex and Relationship Coaching?
  • Learning erotic embodiment can help you walk through the world with confidence and clarity, attracting the people and success you desire. 
  • Trusting your own wisdom and speaking your desires can help you set clear and strong boundaries about what you want during sex, in your relationships, and in your profession.
  • When you learn to track your own arousal process, you can enjoy prolonged, deep erotic connections with yourself and your sexual partners.  Imagine breaking the cycle of mediocre sex and experience epic sex and deeply fulfilling relationships!
  • Unlearn the stories of shame you carry and really see, hear, feel, and taste yourself as the radiant, powerful person you are.  Write your own stories of truth and fall in love with yourself.
  • Dismantle painful communication patterns and create connection, desire, and passion through conscious communication. 

About My Style

Prompt — I want to give you a solid foundation of information and a structure that you can use to understand and develop your own sexual life and relationships. 

In each of the categories we explore, you get a series of educational or philosophical prompts — videos, writing, or worksheets — that invite you to consider new information or a different perspective on sexuality, relationships, or desire.  The prompts and content is meant to be done at home, in your own time, so that when we meet each other in the coaching session, we are diving into the details of how this content is impacting you specifically. 


Practice  — As humans, we can’t change patterns or habits unless we DO something different.  Your practices are designed to get the new information embedded into your body. 

Think of this as learning to tie your shoes or play a musical instrument.  In order to get good at the activity, you must break apart the action into a smaller series of steps or component parts to refine your skills and master your technique. 

Practices include erotic, emotional, and embodiment exercises such as using your breath, movement, and voice, communicating specifically what you want, need, and desire, or remembering the earliest messages you received about sexuality. 


Process — The best way to really get new information or new habits to stick with you is to track them, record the, and talk about them. 

Our process is the verbal and written unpacking and making sense of the prompt and what you experienced in your practice, whether that was looking into your memory, engaging in solo or partnered interaction or play, or simply reporting on what is happening in your body in the current moment. 

My intention is to give your brain, body, heart, and sex a multitude of avenues for learning, growing, understanding, achieving your goals so you can feel more at home in your skin, grateful in your life, confident in all your moments, and truly reveling in the artistry of your life.
Liberating Desire, led by Eva Blake, is a path of Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork, Sex and Intimacy Coaching, sex therapy, sexual healing, sexual empowerment, and whole life transformation in Houston, Texas.  This practice is LGBTQIA affirming, kink experienced, trauma informed, and justice oriented.