Are you ready to be the one floating on air, bright-eyed, and lit up because you feel absolutely delicious in your skin, 100% confident in your pleasure, and you are regularly, consistently, having the best damn sex of your life?
Wouldn’t it be the best fucking thing ever to stop feeling dried up and frustrated with bad, boring, unfulfilling sex and instead be the woman feeling alive, awake, radiant, and powerful in your pussy pleasure?
Would you like to experience your pleasure as a renewable resource, fueling your day to day life, juicing up your interactions, and attracting people who are open, lit up, authentic, and turned on by your turn on?
Ready for it to be your turn to have what so many women experience --
surrendering to multiple orgasms, worshipped by your lover, and feeling like your sex life went from meh, ok to OMG!!
Wouldn’t it be the best fucking thing ever to stop feeling dried up and frustrated with bad, boring, unfulfilling sex and instead be the woman feeling alive, awake, radiant, and powerful in your pussy pleasure?
Would you like to experience your pleasure as a renewable resource, fueling your day to day life, juicing up your interactions, and attracting people who are open, lit up, authentic, and turned on by your turn on?
Ready for it to be your turn to have what so many women experience --
surrendering to multiple orgasms, worshipped by your lover, and feeling like your sex life went from meh, ok to OMG!!
sign up ^^^
3-day live training
August 3 - 5
9 am PST (Portland) / 12 pm EST (New York) / 5 pm BST (London)
1 hour each day
August 3 - 5
9 am PST (Portland) / 12 pm EST (New York) / 5 pm BST (London)
1 hour each day
welcome to the Pleasure Paradigm
The what?
Yep! This is a whole new way of being IN and OUT of bed ...
and I want to break it down for you and invite you into this paradigm
where its both intimate and expansive — regardless of how it feels for you right now
Yep! This is a whole new way of being IN and OUT of bed ...
and I want to break it down for you and invite you into this paradigm
where its both intimate and expansive — regardless of how it feels for you right now
Do you feel like you’re failing in your bed when you’re crushing it in your career or family? Like you’ve got success "out there" but not in your most intimate, personal moments?
Is it all a big mystery to actually get turned on and juiced up? Like every time you try to go big in pleasure, you get frustrated or hit a wall?
Are you sick of that Judge Judy voice in your head saying you don't deserve pleasure, passion, or mind-blowing orgasms? Or that you have to get everything done perfectly before you can feel good?
Do you stop yourself from saying what you want, think, or feel because you’re afraid of looking or sounding stupid, or being rejected so you swallow your voice, repress your passionate impulse, and then feel shitty about yourself?
Is it all a big mystery to actually get turned on and juiced up? Like every time you try to go big in pleasure, you get frustrated or hit a wall?
Are you sick of that Judge Judy voice in your head saying you don't deserve pleasure, passion, or mind-blowing orgasms? Or that you have to get everything done perfectly before you can feel good?
Do you stop yourself from saying what you want, think, or feel because you’re afraid of looking or sounding stupid, or being rejected so you swallow your voice, repress your passionate impulse, and then feel shitty about yourself?
Get your booty in the training! ^^
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I see you, and as hard as it may be to believe, I have been where you are ...
Wishing that sex and intimacy was easy peasy, that every time I got in bed with my lover, we'd both have an epic, mind-blowing experience worshipping each other's bodies and souls. I would feel adored, sexy, powerful, and completely free to surrender into my lover's arms and into the waves of sensations and orgasms. |
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I wanted us both to fall asleep satisfied and wake up renewed and in love with each other, ourselves, and our amazing lives!
But, girl, that was NOT happening!!!
I was self-conscious of the razor burns on my inner thighs, the zit on my ass, whether my pussy was too "pungent," farting while being fucked, or making any noise at all that revealed any pleasure or discomfort.
I wanted the connection, pleasure, and orgasm so bad, but I was so self-conscious that I was anxiously obsessing over everything and relaxing into nothing.
And then, I'd get so upset that the sex and intimacy wasn't how I wanted that I'd beat myself up about it. And when I tried to masturbate on my own, this frustration blocked all orgasm and joy.
I felt broken and ashamed.
It got so bad one time that when I didn't have an orgasm during my solo sex, I pulled the covers up over my head and cried into the sheets, cussing myself for failing again...
And I knew I couldn't keep going like this.
So, I stopped trying to figure it out all on my own.
See, I was making sex and pleasure something I had to “figure out” — like I was assembling an entire living room of IKEA furniture with no directions! Yikes!
And I was doing it all on my own — without the support of someone who really knew where I’d been, what I wanted, and how to help me get there.
No wonder it was a struggle.
So, I got over myself and asked for help.
The breakthrough was stepping in and surrendering to the all the “yeses” inside me. Over and over again. Even if I was afraid or didn't know what would happen on the other side.
From all those experiences on my own and helping hundreds of other women, I identified a pattern that I turned into a paradigm.
But, girl, that was NOT happening!!!
I was self-conscious of the razor burns on my inner thighs, the zit on my ass, whether my pussy was too "pungent," farting while being fucked, or making any noise at all that revealed any pleasure or discomfort.
I wanted the connection, pleasure, and orgasm so bad, but I was so self-conscious that I was anxiously obsessing over everything and relaxing into nothing.
And then, I'd get so upset that the sex and intimacy wasn't how I wanted that I'd beat myself up about it. And when I tried to masturbate on my own, this frustration blocked all orgasm and joy.
I felt broken and ashamed.
It got so bad one time that when I didn't have an orgasm during my solo sex, I pulled the covers up over my head and cried into the sheets, cussing myself for failing again...
And I knew I couldn't keep going like this.
So, I stopped trying to figure it out all on my own.
See, I was making sex and pleasure something I had to “figure out” — like I was assembling an entire living room of IKEA furniture with no directions! Yikes!
And I was doing it all on my own — without the support of someone who really knew where I’d been, what I wanted, and how to help me get there.
No wonder it was a struggle.
So, I got over myself and asked for help.
The breakthrough was stepping in and surrendering to the all the “yeses” inside me. Over and over again. Even if I was afraid or didn't know what would happen on the other side.
From all those experiences on my own and helping hundreds of other women, I identified a pattern that I turned into a paradigm.
The Pleasure Paradigm is all about saying yes to yourself.
Saying Yes to feeling good because you are worth it.
- YES to working with your brain so that you stop moving from fear, doubt, and scarcity and instead own your pleasure & trust your desire
- YES to moving your body to release fear, trauma, and stored emotions holding you back from reclaiming your pleasure
- YES to speaking your desire and being 100% confident in naming and creating what you desire in the moment as you live it
This is how my clients are creating the amazing results in their sex, body, relationships, and lives — they align who they are with what they want.
Just 4 months into working with me, Kate said this:
“I have gone from 'I am worthless and nothing that I want matters' to
'I am fucking in love with myself!' I'm 50 going on 25!”
How fucking cool is that????
Kate embraced the Pleasure Paradigm and committed to finally giving herself what she’d wanted for a decade — to explore her kinky side.
She started attending BDSM events in her city, meeting new people in her community, and discussing her curiosities with her partner. In just a few months, Kate has a regular set of play partners, an open and loving relationship with her primary partner, and a whole new level of confidence and self-love.
Words Kate is using to describe her current sex and love life:
“Euphoric, sexy as hell, and so much fun!”
It is 100% doable for you too.
Everyone is different, with different goals and different results, but 1 thing is true:
you can have the pleasure and fulfillment you desire.
I know, because I keep seeing it with my clients. Year after year, the women I work with are revolutionizing their life because they choose to say yes to themselves.
It starts with you saying YES to having the pleasure you deserve. No more waiting!
Just 4 months into working with me, Kate said this:
“I have gone from 'I am worthless and nothing that I want matters' to
'I am fucking in love with myself!' I'm 50 going on 25!”
How fucking cool is that????
Kate embraced the Pleasure Paradigm and committed to finally giving herself what she’d wanted for a decade — to explore her kinky side.
She started attending BDSM events in her city, meeting new people in her community, and discussing her curiosities with her partner. In just a few months, Kate has a regular set of play partners, an open and loving relationship with her primary partner, and a whole new level of confidence and self-love.
Words Kate is using to describe her current sex and love life:
“Euphoric, sexy as hell, and so much fun!”
It is 100% doable for you too.
Everyone is different, with different goals and different results, but 1 thing is true:
you can have the pleasure and fulfillment you desire.
I know, because I keep seeing it with my clients. Year after year, the women I work with are revolutionizing their life because they choose to say yes to themselves.
It starts with you saying YES to having the pleasure you deserve. No more waiting!
get in this training!! ^^
What are you ready to say yes to?
Bring your desires, your curiosity, your passion, and let’s walk together into the Pleasure Paradigm .... where anything is possible for you.
Bring your desires, your curiosity, your passion, and let’s walk together into the Pleasure Paradigm .... where anything is possible for you.
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